Problem? Ask Zanemvula!

My uncle says I’m unnatural


If you feel depressed by people telling you that it is unnatural to be gay, you may benefit from empowering yourself with facts from biologists who work with animals in nature to get a grip on what really constitutes the “natural” world…

My lover has an affair…


Ouch… one of the most painful things in the world to happen to you. Here’s advice on how to get your life back – in stead of thinking what your lover is up to… Getting your self-esteem and personal power back is your first priority. This is not an overnight process…

Let’s talk!


If a personal issue is making you unhappy, write to Zanemvula for advice at our website askzanemvula@oia.co.za. Letters to this address may be published on this website under Problem? Ask Zanemvula. Zanemvula will regularly answer letters in this advice column. Feel free to use a pseudonym. However, if you prefer to receive direct e-mail or telephonic counselling from Zanemvula, contact her directly at zanemvula.moya@gmail.com. Direct counselling will not be published on the website and will be charged a fee. More information on Zanemvula is available on links on this page.

Zanemvula bied persoonlike berading aan


Soek jy emosionele ondersteuning? ‘n Dieper verstandhouding met die lewe? Zanemvula bied persoonlike berading aan

Zanemvula offers personal counselling


Do you need emotional support? Zanemvula offers personal counselling…